Legacy relieves pain of tragedy
Virginia Fairchild

City Editor

Everything happens for a reason.

When my cousin Joe became a father during his sophomore year in high school, it seemed like the worst thing that could have happened.

We were like brother and sister growing up. Joe was the all-American boy. He played sports, was heavily involved in student council and had tons of friends. Having a child at such a young age just didn t seem to fit into the blueprint. But, it happened and he learned to deal with it.

It was tough of course and there were many, many awkward moments. But Joe went on to become student body president. He still found time to play varsity basketball, and he always found time for friends and family. He was handsome, smart, funny and destined for greatness.

My family got the call Sunday morning, Aug. 6, 2000. I remember it vividly. Mom came in, woke me up and said,  Joe was killed last night. 

He fell asleep at the wheel and drove into a semi head on. He was killed instantly.

Some things are just impossible to comprehend. My cousin, the one I looked up to for so many years, was gone. Just like that he was gone.

Now, when I look at Rowan (his baby girl), I see Joe. It relieves some of the pain because part of him is still with us. Rowan is a God-send.

It s hard to believe Joe was born only to live for 19 years. God knew Joe had early reservations for his grand plans in the kingdom of heaven, so he granted him the pleasure of parenthood at an early age. Most people who die young don t get that opportunity.

Since Joe s death, I have grown to understand my life is a puzzle with several pieces missing. God has all of them, but he ll only give me certain pieces at a time. Through this experience, I ve learned everything happens for a reason. I know everything won t make sense until I go to heaven, but it s fun to try and figure it out along the way.